THE travesti em São Paulo :
In case you are any normal guy, frankly, you’ve probably messaged or perhaps talked to a woman who’s really hot. And to make things more complicated, she most likely responded favorably towards you. What happens next can be something all of us have been guilty of: we believe to ourselves, “Oh man, I don’t wish to blow it with this girl!” After which what happens? Sure enough, we blow it! But why?
Why do we act different around girls we perceive as a lot better than what we’re used to getting? The solution is simple. We begin having ideas like, “This girl is simply too warm for me personally, I better discard in a small amount of something extra to successfully attract her.” And that is exactly what we do. No dice soldier! This is very unsatisfying for us and all our hard work of getting exactly where we’re with her would all have been for nothing and a total waste of time.
DON’T do otherwise than you normally would. Guys make the mistake time and time again. They obtain a positive reply (online) or a reaction (in person) from an especially hot woman and in addition they think (because she is really hot) they have to try something new and much better. In essence…they panic. Picture every female the same…as someone you wouldn’t date unless she had a kick ass personality. Her looks don’t impress you. In fact, they somewhat turn you off as you are aware of there is a better chance she has a shallow personality Because of her style.
Why is this? Because she’s had the opportunity to cruise through life by using her looks to get friends, boyfriends, material items, jobs, favors or anything else she chooses and from anyone that happens to cross the path of her. Whereas the majority of society has to apply its personality, charm, wit, work ethic, sense of humor and the random piece of luck here and there. We call these particular women External Validation Junkies! And you know what I am referring to when I mention external validation junkies. These’re the girls who feed off of getting attention from their external surroundings, and most of the attention is from males.
So if you realize you are in the presence of an exceptionally attractive female, remember, don’t act different! in fact, treat her like she’s just “one of the guys.”